Soft BDSM: a new beginning

Soft bdsm was finally becoming a strong part of my lifestyle. The vanilla era was over, so there was plenty of time and space for new femdom practices. Likewise, I was so ready for a new beginning.

I dreamed of having a soft bdsm and femdom relationship for a long time. It was always in my head until it became a kind of obsession. I really wanted to be a domme, a non-professional dominatrix. As a consequence, soft bdsm had to be part of my life and daily routine. 

I didn’t know much about this topic, so the first thing I did was to learn more about it. I watched videos online and imagined what it would be like for me to be in a female led relationship. Every time I got so excited, thinking about it was enough.

The more days passed, the more it led me to immerse myself in these relatively new practices. Finally, it was time to start this relationship with my partner. I noticed he was following me in this. For instance, he liked to see me more dominant and sensual. He silently surrendered and slowly started to give me all the power. Consequently, I was the one in charge, my desire became true!

Our relationship became a 24/7 femdom and soft bdsm relationship.

We now have a bdsm contract defining our roles, rights and duties, limits, etc. Moreover, I bought the first BDSM tools as a present for my submissive. It is a  collar including a leash, I can already see him happy and submissive wearing it. Soon I will buy some other objects, in my list I have: chastity cage, whip, paddle, gag, handcuffs, a dildo… possibly a strapon, too. I am sure my submissive is also looking forward to experience new sexual practices. 

It’s the end of the year but, for me, it’s a new beginning. My transformation is taking place… 

A new beginning, in general, holds profound significance in the tapestry of human experience, symbolizing renewal, growth, and the prospect of positive change. Whether it manifests as a personal reinvention, a career shift, or an intimate transformation, embarking on a new chapter brings about a cascade of effects that resonate on multiple levels.

At an individual level, a new beginning is akin to hitting the reset button, allowing for introspection and the opportunity to shed old habits, beliefs, or relationships that may no longer serve one’s well-being. It injects a sense of vitality into life, igniting motivation and enthusiasm. This rejuvenation often leads to enhanced mental and emotional well-being, fostering resilience and adaptability in the face of challenges.

In intimacy, a new beginning can be a catalyst for innovation and sexual experiences.

However, the effects of a new beginning are not always immediate or uniformly positive. Change can be accompanied by challenges, uncertainty, and resistance, even in a soft BDSM relationship. Navigating these complexities demands courage, resilience, and a willingness to learn from both rewards and punishments.

Following your own feelings in intimacy, unburdened by external judgment, is crucial for authentic connections. Embracing your emotions fosters genuine self-expression and vulnerability, creating a space where trust and understanding can flourish. This is valid for both Mistress and submissive in a soft BDSM relationship.

By prioritizing your feelings over societal expectations or potential judgment, you cultivate an environment where true intimacy can thrive. This self-awareness and acceptance not only strengthen personal relationships but also contribute to a more fulfilling and honest connection with yourself. It’s a liberating journey that celebrates individual authenticity, fostering a deep sense of connection and satisfaction in both personal and intimate spheres of life.

For more info, read this post from my blog!