Becoming a Femdom: my awesome FLR story

Becoming a femdom: let me tell you about my path.

Don’t miss my videos depicting my FLR evolution and transformation while becoming a femdom. It’s worth it!

My story started in a very ordinary way: a graduated next-door girl grown in an upper-mid class family. I was a determined girl enjoying life and with a natural predisposition to domination. As a young teenager, I loved to be the queen of the group and the one deciding what to do next.

After all, I was very satisfied with every sphere of my life, I was successful and I was very proud of my existence. I had everything a girl could ask for beauty, personality, wealth, family, intelligence, and much more. In short, only the sexual sphere was the one not totally fulfilled.

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My old life: vanilla

The relationship with the current partner was basically vanilla: there is nothing else to say. It was about conventional sex, basic feelings, controlled passion and lack of exploration. As a result, it came out to be a routine relationship and therefore I felt oppressed and sad.

Why was I feeling so bad and unsatisfied? It is easy: this relationship was going against my nature! After several sleepless nights, I came to this conclusion: I wasn’t at all a vanilla girl!

I love exploring new things and activities, I am passionate about life as I consider it a precious gift. Either curiosity and creativity are two of my top qualities: I need to feel alive and I adore both responsibility and power control! Yes, you understood correctly… I adore dominating other people.

I realized that I wanted another kind of relationship and I discovered to desire something harder, more extreme and arousing rather than sweet. It is clear that I was in the wrong relationship with the wrong man.

I understood to be a female supremacist, loving to be totally in control and free of expressing myself without any boundary. I started my transformation in becoming a femdom.

 

My new “me”: transition, becoming a femdom

Clarified my sexual desires, I could start my new and deeper experiences in becoming a femdom. I loved hard sex because I really felt every emotion and physical pleasure was ten times enhanced. Role plays helped me during this “transaction”: I could act to reach my objectives. In that period I also read several articles about BDSM and couples: about how this practice can increase the intensity of the relationship and how powerful it is. It really is, believe me.

After a short period, I found a new partner. He was originally from the UK, a bit older than me and with a strong personality. I can consider him an “alpha” man: successful, determined, leader and dominant. He was open-minded within sex and, like myself, he was always ready to experience the unknown.

Becoming a femdom was always in my mind, my objective!

 

My new relationship: Female Let Relationship (FLR)

It sounded weird at the beginning, but then it became normality. Becoming a femdom is not always easy.

As already mentioned in another post about the femdom’s characteristics, an alpha personality with a successful career often looks for something different in private life. This is what happened with my partner. During his work he had to take all the big decisions, to be in control, to lead the team and to successfully manage the business. At home, he didn’t feel like facing this heavy role and I was glad about that. I finally found the perfect man for me. The roles were reversed hence I was the one leading and he was the one obeying. Vanilla sex was finally out of my world and everything was ready for becoming a femdom.

I was becoming a female supremacist, a femdom, I loved to be totally in control of my sub and dominate him. Our relationship was slowly transforming itself into a Female Led Relationship (FLR).

I was fascinated and curious about FLR; I read many books, blogs, manuals of femdom and started to buy some erotic tools. The first one I bought was a collar and leash: I was very aroused about the idea of owning my man and be responsible for this relationship. You can find a comprehensive list of my favorite BDSM tools in my other post.

Good to know: the collar is the symbol of submission in a BDSM relationship.

 

Deeper and deeper: 4 BDSM stages

Often, in a BDSM relationship, the submissive receives a contract mentioning its conditions and terms. Roles and safe words are defined, together with limits and some of the mandatory daily tasks.

The contract should be signed by both the femdom and the slave, in order to avoid problems in the future.

1st stage

Back to my story… Our life became a consensual daily 24/7 FLR: my sub did absolutely everything I asked him, else, he got punished.

It was an intense relationship, powerful, arousing, full of passion and respect. Every day we wanted to experience something new and go deeper into this practice. We felt addicted to BDSM, we couldn’t live without it.  

BDSM thoughts and femdom ideas were filling my mind: how to plan the next session, what to request to my sub once at home, how I would feel during the practice and so on. I was concentrating on my pleasure and how to intensify it. Being cruel, became the most arousing thing for me.

2nd stage

I bought a leather whip and I loved to use it on my sub. The sound of whipping, the red marks on the skin, his painful gaze… it was extremely exciting. My sub was also very involved in this relationship: it seemed like being submissive was for him a huge lifestyle change and a great stress release. He handed over the complete control to me and agreed to be dominated by me, his Mistress.  

3rd stage

This practice became a drug, I wanted more and more. My attitude was constantly changing, becoming crueler and straightforward. I was training my sub according to my desires and pleasure. Punishments and humiliation were my daily practice.

I got to the conclusion that I like men, as long as they know where is their place.

I transformed myself into a young Domme, a cruel soul, loving FLR, control, and power exchange.

 

My present life: after becoming a femdom

I still live BDSM 24/7 with my submissive, I love to build domme-sub relationships and I like men to serve me and worship me like the Goddess I am.

 

Becoming a femdom, at the end of the day

I suggest you try this discipline as it really makes you feel powerful and totally in control.

Did you ever dream of leading your man? I guess that all of you had this thought at least once. Therefore, what are you waiting for? Enjoy your FLR relationship.

You can read more about my personality on the about me section of the website, see some of my shots in the updates section or go directly to the join now page.