Interview with a Mistress [by Slave Karissa]

Interview with a mistress: know more about Mistress Kym
Thanks to Slave Karissa… and here you can read some of my answers.

When was your first time “out” as a kinky person? Like you knew you were kinky and proud of it.

I have always been a bit kinky… 😉

 

Every Domme has specialties. Some are sensual and some are sadistic and then it breaks down into all kinds of play. What are your specialties?

My story is authentic and spontaneous. My specialties depend on my mood and situation in that very moment. I can be both sadistic and sensual. I do what it takes to get what I want to achieve and feel.

 

Every person has their kinks but they also have limits. Subs certainly have limits but so do Dommes. What are your limits?

I feel very free in my Femdom relationship. I don’t like to limit myself if that doesn’t harm, hurt or hurt those around me. Respect for the other is very important. This is my limit.

 

Did you start as submissive or did you go straight into dominance?

Straight into dominance

 

When you were starting out, did you have any fears about being a Domme?

It wasn’t exactly fear. Only it was a bit difficult at first because I didn’t know how my ex-partner would take it.

 

This interview with a mistress continues with the following questions…

Speaking of starting out, do you remember your very first session?

I remember it all started gradually. At each “session” I introduced dominant attitudes or new Femdom practices to educate and discipline my sub. I think it is a good strategy to enter this world.

 

Do you use safe words when you play? What are your safe words?

No, in my relationship it is not necessary. I know my sub very well, and I know myself even better. When the relationship is so close-knit and passionate, there’s no need to have limiting principles. If you are not in a real relationship, I still recommend establishing a safe word or something similar.

 

Do you provide aftercare after you play with someone?

Of course, aftercare is very important after the sessions, especially if they have been very intense. I also mentioned that in a post on my blog about the importance of these gestures of affection, care, and comfort. https://mistresskym.com/bdsm-checklist-dos-and-donts/

 

I love role-playing usually I’ll do mommy/daughter, big sister/little sister, teacher/student. Do you like to role-play? What is your favorite kind of role play?

I was role-playing in the past, in my youth, playing fairly classic roles. To date, it is not part of my practices anymore and I no longer feel it is “my thing”. I like to be myself.

 

Chastity: Do you have anyone in chastity right now? What is the longest you ever had someone in chastity? Do you prefer plastic, silicone, or metal?

Often, I have my sub locked in chastity. The duration depends a lot on the session, training, discipline, punishment, or more. The longest period to date has been one month. I prefer chastity devices made of metal or plastic.

 

CBT: What is the most sadistic thing you’ve done when it comes to CBT?

Squeeze his balls with all my strength. Or put some pliers or clamps on them. Finally, kicks, slaps whipping and pinches.

 

Sissification: Can you take us through the process of sissification? Do you prefer more the “French maid” type or the “dirty slut” type?

This is not something I do.

 

Let’s talk about sadism. What is the most sadistic thing you’ve done?

I don’t fall into the category of extremely sadistic Mistresses. I use sadism when I feel like it or, among other things, as a means of disciplining my sub. I use my whip or paddle a lot during moments of sadism.

 

As opposed to other kinks, foot worship or a foot fetish seems to be the most mainstream. Why do you think that is?

I love it. Feet are the part of our body closest to the ground, and therefore dirtiest. Being worshiped and worshiped demonstrates a great sense of respect, love and devotion. I managed to create in my ex-boyfriend a foot fetish, and this is going on since years now.

 

A lot of people are ashamed of certain kinks they have (me included). They can’t share with anyone due to fear of judgment or something. What advice would you give to those people?

I always say “life is short: do what you feel like doing”. If sharing your kinks embarrass you, don’t. At the right time, when you feel ready, you will find the strength to face judgments, comments, etc., and share your kinks.

 

Are you in a personal relationship right now?

Yes, I am in an “open relationship”, living with my 24/h slave. So I would say I have full sexual freedom.

 

How do you prefer to be addressed by your subs and how do you address them?

They address me as Mistress Kym, and I address them as “submissive”, “sub” or “slut”… it depends

 

The kink rabbit hole goes deep. There are things I am into that I never thought I’d be into. What are some things you are just interested in or would like to try that you haven’t yet?

Golden shower. Strap-on, extreme Cuckolding, Mummification.

 

What are some ways people can be kinky without spending a ton of money?

Getting into a real, authentic kinky relationship

 

Looking at your website, you don’t accept gifts. Why is that?

I am a self-fulfilled and independent alpha girl. When I need/want something I just get it. I don’t like to waste my time waiting for someone to do that for me. I love to be in control!

 

Have you ever dominated two people at the same time?

No, but it’s actually one of my objectives for 2021.

 

And the last question of this interview with a mistress is…

 

What was one mistake you made starting out that you won’t make again?

To act too much rationally without including the “heart.” There must be love and a full array of emotions.

 

Recommendations:

Recommend a film.  > Hector and the Search for Happiness

Recommend a song. > “Imagine” by John Lennon

Recommend a TV show.> Friends

Recommend a book. > The hobbit

Recommend a meal > I love every healthy and organic food

 

Last thing….THE 3 WORD GAME! Name 3 things you love. Two rules are one has to be kink-related and they all have to begin with the same letter. For example, if I chose the letter B, it would be books, bed, and bondage. If I chose the letter S it would be sleep, singing, and sensory deprivation.

Flowers

Fairy tales

Foot fetish

 

Thanks for reading this interview with a Mistress!

Links:

https://fetlife.com/users/6611963

https://twitter.com/MistressKym

https://www.instagram.com/mistress_kym/

https://www.facebook.com/dommekym/

https://www.reddit.com/user/GoddessKym

 

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