In many parts of the world, women do domination staff for money. It may sound pathetic or shameful but, if you this about it carefully, you may understand that all sex has to do with money. The question now is: would you ever have sex for money?

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Why everyone had or will have sex for money

Let’s start from the beginning.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that you get paid for your performance. But it is more about everything happening around it. Even women who have nothing to do with any kind of sex work expect a man to pay for them even before they sleep with him, even before they think if they’re going to follow through and date him or not, even before his second date. That means they are paid with dinners, presents, evenings out, and so on.

Don’t’ you think so? Don’t you expect the man to pay on the first day? Or, don’t you expect a man to make more than the woman, or to buy her flowers, to buy her staff, to make her happy, to take her shopping and so on? Like it or not, this is nowadays culture, this is socially accepted and expected. Even these relationships without professional sex entertainer and client have to do with money. So if you really think that there is free, completely free sex, well… you are wrong.

 

Sex for money with professional sex workers

Sex with professional entertainers can be quite expansive. Some professional mistresses, escorts or femdoms can charge you for the session (1-2 hours) itself, but also for the location (hotel room), for dinner and, why not, for a spontaneous gift.

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If you don’t want to pay that much, you have to find an amateur woman on platforms like FetLife or other similar sites. There you will find someone who has an actual interest in an exclusive relationship with the submissive man. These women will possibly and significantly go down with costs because you’re going to be a submissive boyfriend and not a client or submissive pay pig. Be aware that these women (or at least many of them) are very experienced and understand if you bullshit them or if you are broke! So, be smart and get their attention only if it is the case. Don’t make them waste time and effort.  You’re in two different galaxies and if you try to fool them and get what you want without paying anything, well, they are not going to pay any attention to your ugly existence for free.

 

Why some people want Financial Domination for free

People who do that, usually suffer from personality disorders such as narcissism. It is better to avoid this kind of people as they only bring problems to your “business”. They are time-wasters and they create unnecessary issues.

So for those of you who are interested in Financial Domination (findom), be aware that you will need to pay you domme as per her requests.

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I will be sincere: if you think that she is going to bother to think tasks for you to do, and supervise you and train you for $50 a month, you’re barking under the wrong tree. If $50 or $100 are already big amounts, you’re cut out for the lifestyle. If you still want to belong to this world, then you need to find a second job or do something extra to have enough money for your Findomme.

Some are actually quite expensive and do not accept bullshits like “I don’t have a lot of money” or “I’m going to pay you next week” or “I want to do it for free”.

For these ladies,  all of this is essentially a job. The women who do this, they do it primarily for the money. There are two categories:

  • women who look for a man who is tall, handsome, they like bad boys, psychopathic or in general masculine guys who are going to spend all the earned money for them.
  • women who want submissive men and they are going to find the right submissive for them, and they’re going to dedicate the time to him for free. They will train him according to their desires and the submissive will obey. This is also a kind of payment.

No one has time for you and your boring personality for free.

 

Conclusion

If you have money to spend, use it. If you don’t want to do that, that’s no one fault, only yours.

Do not forget that sex for money is nowadays a concrete thing. It happens everywhere and with everyone. Don’t be ashamed if you want to experience Findom, you are not alone. The only thing you should keep in mind is to not bullshit findommes as they will get angry at you and will not consider you at all. This is a business, not a game.

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If you are more an amatorial person, do not look for professional dommes but concentrate your searches on FetLife. Everyone will be happy and no one will get upset or annoyed by you.