Ok, we need to find out which are the basis for a healthy Female Led Relationship.

Look at you, little sub. Sitting there, reading this post. You are so good and obedient, so willing to understand. Already ready to listen to my every word about Female Led Relationship, and ready to soak up all my pieces of advice. You are like a sponge, aren’t you? Willing to learn, and to apply the lesson in your real life. Because you want to be in a FLR, I know it. I feel it.

 

My role…

I hope you really took heed in my suggestions. Did you read my other posts about it? Did you understand the real meaning of being in that kind of relationship? It’s not a joke, it’s not a part-time submission. It is serious and you need to be 100% involved in it. Your girlfriend will become your domme, and she will be the only one for you. She will have the power on you, the total control of your life and of the relationship itself.

I guess you are ready for it because your domme told me she’s been so impressed with the way that you have adapted to your Female Led Relationship. You just need to keep training and improve. You have to become a good sub, this is your job.

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Your role…

Do you think you’re ready for that? Do you think you’re ready to go a little bit deeper into a female domination style relationship? Yes, you are. Of course you are, otherwise, you probably wouldn’t be reading this post. Right?

Your domme asked me to really make sure I praised you. You are doing well, you have been open and honest, telling me about your little kinks, your little perversions. For example, how much you love to see women dressed up with sexy lingerie, in those high-heel black boots, looking powerful and perfect. What a beautiful spectacle, women are like goddesses. Marvelous and intriguing.

Your domme asked me to congratulate you for bringing some of those little fantasies inside the relationship. Fantasies that you have in reality. Yes, that’s right. I know exactly how dirty and kinky you have been and I’m impressed. I’m impressed that she has been having that kind of sex with you, something that she wanted since a long time. And something that arouses you, too. You cannot deny it.

I’d say that you might just be having better sex than some of the normal men out there, but we’ve got a way to go. Haven’t we?

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Now it sounds as if you have been perhaps doing a few things for the relationship to earn your privilege of wanking. Because it is a privilege, isn’t it?

Anyway, you still need to really learn just how much of a privilege it is. So I want you to learn a few new rules for me today about four new little rules that we’re going to put into place and we’re going to make sure that you attend to if you want to continue having a girlfriend.

 

Rules for a healthy Female Led Relationship

Well, number one is about masturbation. You need to cut that way down. I mean, you did say that you want a Female Led Relationship, right? You did say that you wanted a femdom sex life. Your girlfriend is happy to give you that, as long as it benefits her.

Now you’re wanking, you’re furious. This fucking, what does that do for the relationship besides the few little chores that you are willing to do to earn it? Not much at all. So well, number one, your girlfriend is going to be in control of your masturbation. She must permit you to stoke if you want it to be stroking. You must resist for extended periods of denial. Things like this will only serve to build up that anticipation of lost desire you know that you have for her. Just greedily touching a dick, rubbing away at women like me on a screen. Really, it doesn’t do anything for you. You need to be trained. You need to be beaten down and just live in sexual subordination.

 

[to be continued…] Read part 2!