How To Start Chatting About Cuckolding Online (5 steps)

Cuckolding online: enjoy this interesting reading about how to start chatting about it!

Just in case you are not sure what cuckolding is, let’s explain the term in two sentences! Cuckolds are those that enjoy watching their partners perform sexual acts with other people. All genders can be cuckolds, and the rules are different for each couple.

How to start chatting about cuckolding online?

1. Start sexting with someone who give you consent
2. Try the open minded ones to experiment
3. How to cope out with those who are not okay with it
4. How to initiate the cuckold conversation
5. Conclusion

1. Start sexting with someone who give you consent

Are there perfect ways to start chatting about cuckolding? Maybe! Once you do start sexting with someone who is consenting (and this is the only right way – always send sexts ONLY to those that gave you permission first), you can also suggest kinky acts. But how do you do that?

Don’t just get too kinky too fast. This may scare people off, and they will start running away like those bimbos in horror movies that always get murdered first.

2. Try the open minded ones to experiment

Wait to meet your sexting partner a bit better. Are they open-minded? How much? Try to judge the situation first.

You will see if they are open to kinkier acts after a while.

The way they talk, the things they suggest to you, what they send to you… Are they a bit shy at first even when you send them regular nudes or just underwear photos? Or are they too comfortable with it?

Usually, people who are too comfy with sexy stuff are more open-minded to experiment. You can give them hints about your preferences in the bedroom, slowly and cleverly. Initially, just mention something a bit kinkier than the things you normally do together.

Maybe you can allude to a blog post you have read about cuckolding and ask them about their opinion.

3. How to cope out with those who are not okay with it

When you bring up cuckolding as a fetish, but not to say you are into it right away, just to ask them what their thoughts on that matter are first, your partner can react in several different ways.

They may say no. Maybe this is too much for them, and they could never approve of a kink like that. In that case, don’t force it. You can either find a different fetish or another sexting partner. Or be patient and wait for this one to open up to it.

But if they are strongly against it, and obviously, you don’t want to make them try it because you don’t want them to do anything they are not comfy with, you can still give them hints you like it from time to time.

Maybe they change their mind. You can send them articles about why cuckolding is healthy and what all the benefits are.

4. How to initiate the cuckold conversation

If they are okay with it, but think it is not for them, you can be more open about it whenever you talk to them. In this case, you can admit that you like it a lot and you want to try it with them.

Still don’t force them, but focus on why cuckolding is fun and enjoyable. Be honest. Tell them why you like it so much. If they are slightly open to it, maybe they will eventually agree to try it at least once.

But it has to be consensual and it must be their idea. Don’t manipulate them and make them, just be honest, share your points of view and tell them why you think it would be fun.
The best-case scenario is that they are game for it! And if they are already that open-minded and open to this kink, you don’t even need special tactics. You can just be yourself 100% and you can start sending cuckold-themed sexts and content.

5. Conclusion

Cuckolding is not for everyone. Some people feel insecure and they believe they will lose their partners if they try a kink like that.

Be understanding about it. We all come with different traits, traumas, and penchants. Some people will see it as a fun way to spice up their sex life! It is juicy, wild, and different! It is also a great way to be unfaithful in an ethical way, and most of us feel the need to be unfaithful from time to time.

Not everyone is monogamous at heart, and these ethical types of polygamy can be very refreshing.

But if you really want to try cuckolding, and your sexting partner doesn’t, maybe you two are not compatible. In that case, finding someone else may be a good idea.

 

You can read more about cuckolding and its psychological benefits on one of Mistress Kym’s posts!