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Just a little bit about me. I am a professional dominatrix, a real dominant woman. I am based in Los Angeles, California and I’m looking to be touring North America and hopefully expanding into international waters in the near future. I’ve been professional for over five years and I am looking forward to sharing my story with you.

Did you always easily have control over men?

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So the first question that is on the list is: has it always been easy to control men and have power over men? And my answer to this question is: when I was five years old, I went to a private school, we had uniforms and the boys would be young and dumb and like to tease girls.

Well, they liked to tease me more than anybody else and I don’t know why. To this day I still don’t know why. But in response to them calling me names, sticking their tongue out at me, I got physical with them. I pinched them sometimes hard enough that my nails left marks on their skin and I also checked them in the shins and in the balls because I knew that it hurt their cause. I did it to one boy and he went down and stayed down and didn’t tease me again.

There were a couple of instances where the boys went to the teachers and told them that I was hurting them and I looked at her straight in the eye and said I started it. She just looked at me and she was just like, “you don’t do that. You don’t get physical. You tell me and I will deal with them”.

I mean, boys aren’t going to be boys. They would say like “oh, I didn’t do it”.

Do you feel guilty about being a dominant woman?

 

So I took matters into my own hands and I didn’t feel guilty for it. I still don’t feel guilty for it and it gave me pleasure to hurt them a little bit and show them a taste of their own medicine because after that they were scared of me. They shut up if they saw me and it was glorious, they respected me in the hallways.

There was one boy who was in awe of few methods and he went so far as to be like “does that not hurt on you?”. And I gave him my arm and I was like “you try it!”. And he punched me as hard as he could. He even broke my skin. Afterward, I was like “no it doesn’t hurt”.

And that’s how I gained and also took control over our boys when I was younger. And that mentality has led up to today as a grown woman, as a grown dominatrix.

Do you play a role? Or are you a naturally dominant woman?

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So the question is: do I role-play being dominant or am I naturally a dominant woman, too? I role-play being dominant with my submissives or slaves. I haven’t a naturally dominant personality. If you’ve never met me the first two minutes of our interaction, you can already tell that I am very confident in myself and I don’t bow down to anybody.

I respect everybody like a human being until they get into the room with me and until they fetish being lesser essentially in my line of work. That means that I am 100% the same as I am writing here right now, answering the questions as I am with my slaves and my submissives. I treat all of them how I normally talk. The only difference is there is role play. If they want to do a scene with a teacher, student or mommy, baby or child, that kind of specific boss and employee relationship.

Other than that, I am always 100% myself. I feel like dominance will shine through based on the delivery of how I commanded my sentences, how I act in session, but it has to have a natural sense for it to really come through as being real and that is one of the things that I think I’m lucky with because I don’t have to pretend. I can just play.

Which celebrity would you dominate?

If I could have any celebrity at my mercy, who would it be? I don’t really idolize or follow a lot of celebrities. I feel like they are just humans with really high profile jobs. You know, there’s a lot of screen time and a lot of press that follows them. But if I had to choose for males, I would probably have been someone like Brandon Lee (RIP), which was Bruce Lee’s son, from “the Crow”. That movie was my initiation to who he could have been, who he was, and all of the potential that was unfortunately lost.

And as for females? Oh, that’s a tough one. I know that I would love to double dominate with Angelina Jolie. Everybody knows what she looks like as a Dominatrix from “Mr. and Mrs. Smith”, but also she’s been a mother force of femininity that I really love and admire. I think it’s super sexy to me. She’s still the best Lara Croft that could ever be. So that’s who I would choose to co dom with and dominate.

Which submissives do you usually attract?

The next question is related to the types of slaves or submissives that I attract because I have such a straightforward personality. Most men just want to be dominated in a way where they just relinquish all responsibility.

I do impact play in tease and denial. I do love CBT and foot worship because I’m a foot model and have been for over three years. Feet are a huge customer satisfaction type of session. It’s instant gratification and it’s something that I can tease them with for a very long time. As for financial domination, I do have slaves that come in and out of my life every so often, but it’s not as consistent as my foot worshipers or those who want to do goddess worship and those who just want pure domination.

So I think I could split it into two categories, domination and goddess worship. And then within domination, that’s the impact. Play the t’s and denial and all that stuff. And then I’m a goddess. It’s my body and my foot worship. This is the tribute that the submissive gives to his dominant woman.

 

For the ones interested, there is also one of my posts about how to be dominant in femdom;-)