I personally spent hours reading literature and trying to find out the best way to organize a top submissive training. I discovered that every Mistress and Domme has her own style, theories, experiences and ways of thinking.

And, I must say, this is wonderful because it gives you plenty of freedom in your relationship with your sub.

What I am doing since then, is perfectly taylor-made for me, my needs and my relationship. I started my submissive training step by step, analyzing every outcome and adjusting it to my objectives.

In my videos, very often there are scenes of submissive training. I would love to show you this video, in which I trained my sub to join me when he anticipates my need of a massage.

He knows that, when I work, I often love to enjoy a back or feet massage. When it’s time, he joins me.

Enjoy the full video and much more about submissive training on my website.

Submissive training in general

Submissive training, when approached with purpose and dedication, wields a transformative power that extends far beyond the physical realm.

Beyond the obvious benefits of enhanced strength, submission, and health, a well-designed training holds the potential to sculpt a resilient mind and foster psychological well-being.

The act of consistent submissive training releases endorphins, the body’s natural mood enhancers, promoting a sense of euphoria and reducing stress.

This positive physiological response not only alleviates anxiety but also cultivates a heightened state of mental clarity and focus.

Moreover, the discipline required for regular training instills valuable life skills such as perseverance, and time management (learn how to anticipate your Mistress or Domme).

On a deeper level, achieving submissive milestones, no matter how small, instills a sense of accomplishment in your sub, reinforcing the belief into femdom challenges.

In essence, the power of good submissive training extends beyond the physical benefits, reaching into the realm of mental and emotional well-being.

It is a holistic approach to self-care, empowering individuals to unlock their full potential and embrace a healthier, more fulfilling life.

A sub will become a better sub and will feel good in his role, after the training.

Is it easy?

顺从的训练是不容易的。像FLR那样,在100%的时间里负责另一个人,是一项乏味和非常苛刻的工作。
这并不像你所想的那样直接。在每个时候,你都需要做出有关你们两个人的明确决定。每一次,从长远来看。直接找到一些例子 在FetLife上 (你需要登录)。

训练你的顺从者将帮助你达到一个目标:他将能够理解你和你的欲望,并预测你,这样你就不需要总是重复同样的事情,或者你感到惊讶,因为他能读懂你的想法。

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Anticipating your Mistress or Domme’s needs and desires is a profound demonstration of empathy and emotional intelligence.

It involves attuning oneself to subtle cues, understanding unspoken preferences, and proactively addressing the wants of hers.

This heightened awareness fosters meaningful connections, as the sub can finally offer support or fulfill needs before they are explicitly articulated by his Mistress.

Anticipation is a dynamic interplay of observation, active listening, and genuine care, creating an environment where relationships flourish. By intuitively meeting the needs and desires of the Mistress, a sub not only strengthen interpersonal bonds but also contribute to a more harmonious and fulfilling FLR dynamic.

 

服从性训练的力量

训练有素的下属会预料到她的主人。 一旦他得到了她的习惯,经常性的需求和欲望,他就会在她没有要求或甚至没有意识到的情况下为她服务。

我没有也不想要一个奴隶。我不喜欢在我的卧室里有这么一个家具人,如果我不告诉他,他就不会动。相反,我想要一个有思想的下属,但那只是为我着想。

预测你的主妇的需求和欲望,对她的精神健康具有核心意义。然而,这很容易失去控制。一个好的主妇会仔细观察,一旦她的下属滥用这种小自由,就会对他进行惩罚。

The first step is to train well your submissive. Above all at the beginning, the training has to be based on the domme’s desires and expectations.

The sub has to have a clear overview of his tasks, of his domme behavior, attitude, emotions, and desires.

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在这里,你可以读到一些关于良好训练的要点。

  1. 计划 训练的目的是为了能够按照你的意愿教育你的臣民。不要太严格或太极端,尤其是在开始的时候,如果他是一个新手的话。好好照顾他,并帮助他完全信任你。
  2. 一致,不要让他感到困惑。如果你遵循一条共同的主线,你的态度对他来说就会很清楚,他将学会了解你,并预测你的一些行动。
  3. 和他谈谈向他解释为什么你以某种方式行事,而不是以另一种方式。安慰他,让他明白你的所有行为(积极的和消极的)都是为了让他受益。
  4. 给予反馈奖励,包括积极的和消极的。如果他做对了什么,就奖励他。如果他做错了什么,就惩罚他。只是不要忘记遵循你的一致性。否则,他将永远不知道自己是对还是错。

对于一个好的顺从者的训练,没有固定的路径可循。这与主妇的意愿有关。训练可以持续到你想要的程度。实际上,它不应该结束,因为对你的下属来说,总有一些东西需要学习。

我还写了一篇关于 如何培训在线奴隶.如果你感到好奇,可以读一读,也许你可以从那里得到一些想法。

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我训练有素的顺从者

我有自己的下属,我训练他已经有几年了。他很聪明,非常细心,愿意满足我所有的要求和愿望。他有要尊重的规则,他知道什么可以做,什么不能做,他知道自己的任务和最后期限,而且他非常听话。

当然,如果他因为想为自己做点什么而搬家,他就会受到惩罚。纪律在FLR中是非常重要的。

预测在其中起着至关重要的作用。一个有思想的子需要 解除她的主母不断发出相同的命令的困扰。.这保留了她的精神清醒和认知能量。

例如,我的下属有他的日常工作和固定的家务要处理。 我在一起搬家时定义了这些. Since then, he pretty much works on autopilot and he got to know me very well. Or, when he feels I need a hot bath, he immediately prepares one for me.

例如,当我回家时,他知道我希望他光着身子,带着项圈在大厅里迎接我。
After a kiss on my shoes and with his head down to the floor he knows I want him to pick all my stuff before I hit the sofa and relax from my day.

I usually order him what I want to drink and he goes prepare it.
这种情况有时会发生,而我却不知道如何发音,除了我想喝的饮料的名字。