Did you read [part 1] of this post about the basis for a healthy Female Led Relationship? You can find it here. Explore your kinks and let you and your girlfriend become a kinky couple.

 

How to become a kinky couple

Well, rule number two, it’s not just that a woman should tolerate this type of kinks from a man. This is to say that a couple in love should accept each other’s little kinks, perversions, and fantasies, but you’re really burdening your girlfriend with this huge load of femdom wanking, aren’t you?

Now, what does it do for her to call you a loser? She’s having to put a hell of effort into making sure that your kinks are controlled. So the least that you can do is follow along with the instructions she gives you, and which help her to understand your needs and your kinks.

How can she understand all of these factors? Show her that you have understood, don’t expect her to do anything in exchange. This research will help her to get things that ultimately will help her to pull you into that deeper subspace of femdom. In the end, your relationship will be a real FLR. You will become a kinky couple.

Help your girlfriend to unlock some of your kinks and become the real domme that you wished she could be. The more you help her to understand all of your kinks and fetishes, the more she’s going to be able to explore them with you. Isn’t that right? That’s exactly what you want from this. Am I wrong?

Why should she be into giving you humiliation if she is not aware of your kinks? It doesn’t do anything for her so necessarily. You should really be owning her, getting into these little perverted fantasies. You should be doing something for her when she does something for you when she locks you up in chastity or tells you that you can’t come unless it’s a certain way.

 

Do it for your girlfriend and transform you into a kinky couple

I want you to really be begging for her to be getting into all of that. I want you to really be doing a lot of nice things for her, so that she feels like giving you all of these nice things in return because it is really fucking nice of her to actually indulge these kinks in it now, rather than just tell you you’re a little freaking to get fucked, rather than just tell you to drown in a pool of your cum.

But now she is choosing to indulge in this Female Led Relationship, to go along with your kinks. So make it worth her while help her understand, make it seamless, make it effortless and beg for her to give you these special stacks that you love. And that brings me nicely onto rule number three: give her the sex that she wants in return.

It is up to you to understand how to sexually satisfy her, you should study her and feel her desires. Do it for her too! Most women have other needs, you have to understand your girlfriend’s ones.

Now, no one has discussed all of this with her, right? That’s a job for you, and you have to find out what it is that turns her on. Do role-plays work in a kinky couple? Maybe…

 

FLR and women sexual desires

Not for all women, this is going to be sensual sex. I am talking about those long dreamy massages, lots and lots of foreplay.

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Did you ever eat out of your girlfriend’s mouth? Did you like it? I guess so!

Well, you’re going to be doing a lot more of that. You’re going to be like all that. Looking away at that sweet little pussy of hers, you’re going to be spending hours googling ways in which to make her tits tingle. You’re going to be coming up with hotter, sexier, more central ways to kiss her, to take her. You’re going to work on becoming more and more of a manly man for her.

To sum up, I can guarantee you that if there are three things that women like from sex, it’s sensuality, hardcore of vanilla style, fucking and a man who can give them all of that. She wants to see you like her sexy, strong stud who she can then humiliate.

 

Your responsibilities

Do you know what might make it even hard to tear down your ego? Certainly, she had to berate you and turn you into a little “beta” male when, in reality, you have the appearance of an “alpha” male. Belittle an “alpha man”: I suddenly find that incredibly hot. Why don’t you try it with her too?

So you do have lots of things to be getting along with, don’t you? So even if you’re at an edge right now, you need to put that dick away. I want you to lock that cock, and I want you to go and do something nice and kinky for your girlfriend. Thinking about all those ways in which you’re going to help her to explore this new relationship, that female led relationship with you.

Namely, you’re going to become more of a manly man and you’re going to give her the vanilla sex every once in a while. The “new you” will go back for extended periods of denial. You will do things for the relationship, not just earn wanking, but even considering humiliating you, degrading you, putting an effort into this in the fucking first place. You are going to become the best little femdom connoisseur out there.

As a consequence, she’s going to have so much fun with you when this is all said and done. I look forward to seeing you improve time and time again. Go on your way now.