Female Led Relationship advice: is it right or wrong?

Female led relationship advice: it happens that some “new” subs are looking for it: is it right or wrong to be in such a relationship?

When it comes to FLR, there is no right or wrong. One of the rules is “don’t ask yourself such a question”. FLR is very healthy for the couple, as it brings several positive psychological benefits to it.

 

Female led relationship advice: is it right or wrong?

This is a question that many people ask themselves.

You have to understand if this is what you really want, you are the only one who knows if this is right or wrong for yourself. If you enjoy doing what you do, if you are pleased about your daily life, if you love obeying, then everything is right for you. On the contrary, if what you do is extremely heavy for you, if you are afraid about what will happen today, and if you don’t trust your domme, then you definitely are in the wrong place.

All in all, there is no right or wrong in a female led relationship itself.

Especially in the 24/7 ones. Because it is an involving relationship, very deep, where two people love and respect each other, and both feel positive emotions. The only difference is that things happen in a different way.

In FLR, your Domme may tell you what to feel, think or do. Dot.

Others’ opinions don’t matter

Society, religion, friends, relatives, or even your inner ethics and values may tell you that a particular FLR-related thing isn’t “correct” or “right” or shouldn’t happen. Or they make you feel wrong or not normal. You may think that your domme shouldn’t ask you to do something or wanting you to do something.
But this is one of the pillars of such a relationship: she dictates the rules. She is in charge of YOU: your body, your emotions, your life.

 

Trust your domme

She can change those rules too, only because she feels like doing it, and you only need to obey and abide. No comments, no complaints, no nothing. Anything she does is right.
You are her sub, your role is to unconditionally submit and take pleasure from that.
So far, you are still not a slave and she doesn’t OWN you (at least, not yet…) but any decision for yourself and for the couple is simply taken by her or passing through her approval.

It’s your job to be told, not to tell. Replicating or thinking about the rightness of her decisions, desires or orders is out of the discussion. Don’t even try to debate, as you will just be punished and disciplined. You should know how it works, you have no power at all in the couple.

If a sub is thinking whether something is right or wrong, it means that he is questioning her Domme’s authority, her discernment’s capabilities and ultimately her control over him.

Just don’t do that.
As explained, trust is all.
Trust her and let her bring you discovering your inner sub-space.

 

My personal female led relationship advice

Personally, I want to give you my female led relationship advice. I think that femdom, FLR, female supremacy, and/or BDSM are right if both partners are consensual. It is extremely important that practices and lifestyles are discussed and agreed at the beginning to avoid unpleasant outcomes. Desires, kinks, fetishes, erotic dreams can become real and part of your 24/7 life.

Initially, it may sound weird, or you feel uncomfortable. But slowly it will be part of your inner self. Be yourself and enjoy this wonderful practice, lifestyle, and loving experience.