Are you looking for ideas to apply in your next femdom session with your partner? Then you are in the right place!

I collected some of my favorite sessions, and here I will share them with you. I would have loved to find this article when I started my transformation into a Mistress!

I’ll be also sharing a captivating video showcasing one of the best sessions I’ve meticulously arranged for my sub.

Stay tuned for an immersive glimpse into my Femdom world. Don’t miss this exclusive preview of my 24/7 FLR!

It is normal to feel a little bit lost and weird when you are a novice within the Femdom world, 我也遇到过这种情况.

You don’t know exactly how to behave, you don’t know your and your partner’s limits, you don’t feel comfortable in this role, or any other fears you may have come out.

Here I would like to share with you some BDSM baselines and guidelines (based on my experience) so that you can have an idea about how it works.

Of course, there is much more to discover and explore. But I’ll leave 那到 you: you can experiment and be as creative as you can, but always in respect of your partner.

 

Before a femdom session: basic guidelines and preparation

Before starting to prepare a BDSM and femdom session, there are few things you need to know in order to create a positive and arousing experience for both you and your sub. As mentioned in one of my posts, BDSM对夫妇来说真的很健康.

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The process includes the 4 following steps, ordered per importance:

BDSM (FEMDOM)

This practice must be consensual, healthy and safe. Do not forget it! A femdom session is successful when both partners agree and feel comfortable.

讨论

Share your ideas with your sub, listen to his desires and answer all his doubts. He completely gives up to you the 控制的 his life, therefore you are responsible for his safety during the session. Just reassure him!

Moreover, be consistent in what you say and what you do. If you don’t, your sub will be confused and won’t enjoy it.

Through 通讯, you can create deep intimacy and establish a profound trust between you. You can find here (or even create) a BDSM checklist reporting many BDSM ideas.

You can go 通过 与你的伙伴一起讨论其中的任何一个,给出你的意见和评价。在此 途径,你有一个更清晰的 对你和他的喜好的概述。

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计划

通过画一个你愿意做什么的方案来计划你的女性主义会议,然后深入到每一个细节。它应该在哪里进行?什么时候?我将如何穿着?我的顺从性着装如何?我需要哪些工具?当后勤部分已经计划好了,你可以释放你的想象力,并很快描述你的女性主义梦想场景。只有通过细致地计划会议,你才能采取 照顾到每一个细节,使之完美无缺!

FLR CONTRACT

准备好了,以便创建 互动的协议和指示 在女主人和顺从者之间。主要的是,你需要建立一个安全词,你的下属可以用它来减缓或停止行动,当它太过分的时候。在你这边,你必须制定规则来约束你的下属,并决定在不服从的情况下采用哪些惩罚措施。这份合同是非正式的,但很重要,因为它 证明 你们两个 同意关于 发生的一切,你们将尊重对方,这是一种自愿的行为。

你现在已经准备好释放你的幻想,创造你的疗程了!

 

会议期间:10个女人的想法

在这里,你会发现10个极其色情和骚扰性的女权想法,让你和你的下属有一个伟大的会议。请看一看,并全部尝试一下 

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你可以找到一个 概述必备的BDSM工具 在我的一个帖子中。

1- Role-play

在BDSM中,有几种传统角色。在最流行的角色中,你有老师和学生,医生和病人,女警和小偷,或其他。你,作为一个女权主义者,创造故事,你们每个人都扮演他的角色。

2- Foot (shoes and stockings) worship

Your sub has to taste, smell, lick (properly clean) and adore your feet, shoes or stockings. You decide how, when, and where he has to do that. This act is very humiliating as feet are one of the dirtiest parts of your body, namely they are “placed” directly on the terrain.

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3- CBT

这意味着 "鸡巴和蛋蛋的折磨"。它不需要很长的解释。你可以踢、压、扭或拍打你的下属的阴茎和蛋蛋。这是非常痛苦的,是一个很好的惩罚想法。要注意的是,男性生殖器是身体的一个非常脆弱的部分,因此在对你的下属采取任何行动之前,要了解你能做什么以及如何做。

4- Spanking

Another perfect way to punish your sub. There are several tools to spank your sub. His skin will be stimulated and consequently more sensitive, this is why this activity can be considered a sensorial game, too. With a spanking tool, every femdom session will be wonderful.

5- Orgasm denial – chastity

这是我的最爱之一。你让你的下属戴上贞操带,只要你愿意,你就是钥匙持有人。他将恳求你释放他的阴茎,但你不会这样做,直到你决定是时候了。你可以创造一个替代方案:当你的下属超级兴奋、亢奋、渴望高潮的时候,你不允许他有高潮。你可以给他手淫,当他要来的时候,你离开他的阴茎,高潮的结果就会被破坏。你可以在这里阅读一个 关于贞操的真实故事 and enjoy my clip.

6- Strapon – power exchange

You have to wear a strapon (single or double) and fuck your sub from behind. You should feel very powerful and totally in control. On the contrary, your sub will be extremely humiliated and totally under your control. Before using it, take some info about how to use it 😉

7- Sensitive games

你可以屏蔽你的下属的一些感官。例如,你可以蒙住他的眼睛,戴上耳塞和口塞。然后你要收集一些物体或材料(冰块、蜡烛/蜡、羽毛和许多其他工具),玩弄你的下属的其他感官:触觉、嗅觉和味觉。

8- Humiliation

有几种方法可以羞辱你的下属,主要分为语言羞辱和身体羞辱。我们在上面已经看到了一些身体上的羞辱。言语羞辱包括你对你的下属说的话,让他感觉很糟糕,很伤心,很自卑,很无用。请看这里 羞辱的例子.

9- Countdown

你的下属必须在你完成倒计时的时候才会高潮。通常是10到1,但也可以是5到1。时间越短,他的高潮就越差。

10- Domestic domination

你的子弟是你的女佣、厨师、清洁工和熨烫工,他需要照顾你分配给他的所有家务。此外,你可以把他当作家具,如椅子、小茶桌等。

11- Ignoring

Ignoring your sub is inherently humiliating, as it dismisses his presence and undermines his value, leaving an emotional void that echoes the weight of exclusion and disregard. During your femdom session, you simply have to ignore your partner, and his arousal will increase exponentially.

 

你准备好尝试所有这些了吗?当然,最好的事情是你想象你自己的场景,创造你自己的24/7女性生活方式。

当你们双方达成共识时,一切都被允许。

 

女性主义会议之后:反馈和更多...

你,作为一个女权主义者,是 对女性主义会议的结果负责。如果出了问题,没有达到预期,那就是你的 "错误"。那么,你最好 运筹帷幄,决胜千里 仔细 并采取 照顾 细节。这些将产生不同的效果。 

你还需要非常敏感和 强调性的 并了解你的奴隶在练习后的感受。你应该采取 照顾 他,安抚他,并尊重地与他互动。正如我在另一篇文章中已经提到的,BDSM是关于爱。这里面没有暴力和仇恨,而是爱。

这一点非常重要,因为 讨论 一旦结束后,女性主义课程。反馈帮助夫妻双方成长,并深入到这种做法中。

 

在我的网站上,你会发现 a goo bunch of videos depicting my personal 24/7 femdom relationship and show several of the femdom sessions with my submissive. Have a look and enjoy it!